04.08.2010 29 °C
For one reason and another, the first few days I spent with N were largely spent in my room! What with a few late nights, the weather and just the fact we got on well and just chatted so comfortably to each other and before we knew it time had flown by. She asked me if I didn't like leaving the room!
We went to the Zoo and I got a couple of nice pics of her riding a horse which she said she'd never done before, although the Zoo itself was a bit shit. We also swam in the hotel pool a couple of times, the second of which involved a bit of discreet (I think) underwater sex! She was so horny all the time and as she explained, once she's had it once, becomes more horny immediatly after! We also did it outside on the small balcony being overlooked by several windows, when the rain came lashing down halfway through. Her face & arms got very wet and I asked if she wanted to go inside as it was thundering, too. She said no & later told me thunder during sex is a real turn-on for her. I couldn't argue with her, that session was pretty good.
My time with her was unfortunately dotted with moments where she would get angry at me for receiving (and sending) messages to I & M. I tried explaining that I didn't just want to cut off contact with them, although at times it was tempting as we got on so well. One time she had tears in her eyes and I broke down and cried like a baby for about 15 minutes, at first in the shower on my own and then even worse when I said sorry and tried to explain my way of thinking to her and that I had made a mistake to keep in contact with girls from the past while seeing her. She kept saying 'please finish now, I don't want to see you cry' but not in a nasty way, in a caring way.
Unfortunately I was again upset when the other girls were bought up on our last night together. I can't blame her, but it makes me so sad to think she may be sad herself. I also had a few problems performing the last few times we had sex together, I'm not totally sure why although there were several things I was worried about at the time (money problems, visa, J constantly wanting me to move on and me wanting to stay, then losing contact with him).
Her interaction with her friends and elders is also a giveaway to her character. She is very affectionate with friends as well as me and they sometimes had to peel her off them because she liked to hug them so much! Also, she explained to me about her espect for elders etc and how it's polite to say 'ka, ka' instead of just 'er' all the time. She also had a couple of phrases that she always said to me - monkey-ow meaning 'I want to kiss you' and Hom for 'you smell good'. She did love to smell my armpits!!! Oh and she gave me the Thai nickname 'Yong', because of my curly hair.
I think that sex and culture obviously excluded, we are very similar in many ways and have similar values. I hope I can see her again if she wants to see me again also. I think the time spent with her is the happiest I've been in my travels so far. What a sexy & special lady.